Unofficially dating someone


One junior girl, who is currently in a 3-month-long hookup said she feels there are some mutual feelings of caring with her hookup guy. “It's still a ‘no strings attached’ thing, but we wouldn't still be hanging out if I was only seen as a booty call.”  Some nights, she says, they hang out but don’t ‘hookup’. “It can definitely be harder on your feelings, but I feel like there's a little bit more caring [in a long-term hookup] than a one night stand offers.”
 
Another junior girl in our survey said her 3-month-long hookup was casual for the first couple months, but then became more serious. “Usually a long term hook-up results in a relationship,” she says. “Which I think is better than a one-night stand.”
 
One junior boy even noticed his feelings for his current hookup of one month. “We still aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but we definitely feel like we have obligations to each other that are more than sexual,” he said.
 
Make sure that you’re both on the same page though. If one person in the hookup thinks of the situation as more couple-like than the other, this can lead to serious hurt on that person’s end. Jealousy then becomes a huge factor.
 
2. You get upset when he talks to other girls.

However, her outlook was changed after she made mean comments to Mal to make Audrey and her friends laugh, causing Mal to undo her magic on Jane.


Unofficially dating someone

Unofficially dating someone